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Iam God’s masterpiece
He created us in his own image
God gives people a chance for a reason.
Involve God in your life and he will refine you to who he wants you to be.
God makes a way where there seems to be no way.
Fear cannot stay where Faith is.
Discouragement cannot stay where hope is.
Stress cannot stay where peace is.
Mediocrity cannot stay where greatness is.


Without courage you cannot solve life’s difficulties.


Four types of courage
Physical courage-keep going with resilience,balance and awareness.


Social courage -be yourself unapologetically.


Moral courage-doing the right thing even when it is uncomfortable/unpopular.


Emotional courage-feeling all your emotions (positive and negative)without guilt or attachment Intellectual courage-to learn unlearn,relearn with an open/flexible mind.


Spiritual courage -living with a purpose and meaning through a heart centred approach towards life and oneself.


4 ways to stay positive
Prayer
Love yourself
Be kind
Change your mindset
Speak positive things.
Do not quit
.

If you quit now you’ll end up right back where you first began when you were desperate to be where you are now.


God is God in all seasons..

self love❤❤

  • Self Love is Key To Life: “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.
  • Selflove seems so often unrequited.” – …
    • The Secret to Happiness “To fall in love with yourself is the first.

Love makes the world go round, but self-love is where it starts!

It is important in all aspects of life yet it is especially important to your relationship. The first stop on the road to romance is you. It is honoring and loving oneself that you deserve the best.

if you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.

“Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others.”

Embrace your Flaws: “If you can learn to love yourself and all the flaws, you can love other people so much better. And that makes you so happy.” -Kristin Chenoweth

Unconditional Self-Love: “Love yourself unconditionally, just as you love those closest to you despite their faults.

To love yourself right now, just as you are, is to give yourself heaven. Don’t wait until you die. If you wait, you die now. If you love, you live now.” -Alan Cohen

Instead of allowing the world to dictate how we feel about ourselves, focusing on self-care, positive encouragement, and self-love can help increase our self-esteem and self-confidence alot.

“You’re always with yourself, so you might as well enjoy the company.

Self-love is never an easy job. When we do something below expectation, we may sometimes fall into the anxiousness of not being good enough, judging ourselves harshly instead of appreciating ourselves for what we are.

There’s no need to be perfect to inspire others. Let others get inspired by how you deal with your imperfections.

Loving yourself starts with liking yourself, which starts with respecting yourself, which starts with thinking of yourself in positive ways.

“Love yourself. Enough to take the actions required for your happiness. Enough to cut yourself loose from the drama-filled past. Enough to set a high standard for relationships. Enough to feed your mind and body in a healthy manner. Enough to forgive yourself and to move on.

accept our own weakness.

Whatever you are doing, love yourself for doing it. Whatever you are feeling, love yourself for feeling it.Stay true to yourself. An original is worth more than a copy.

what lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

IF THE SHOE FITS WEAR IT

Today’s post is actually inspired by a very good friend.At the same time it’s based on a situation i’ve experienced .I’m sure most people have struggled with it at a particular point in life.

Most of the time we deal with battles in situations that are not even supposed to be battles,Simply because of the wrong choices we make knowingly or unknowingly.

Learn to go where you are wanted,be with people who love and value you,there are things that are not supposed to be forced.

do a course that goes along with your passion and abilities.

learning may be an easy task and it is for a certain period.but when you go to the employement field or working field it becomes something you do everyday probably to earn a living.Sometimes your career may be one that affects people directly because of the services you offer.

So make sure you do something that motivates you and that you will offer your best in your particular field of expertise.

Once you begin or get used to doing things that are your own interest and according to your best abilities.

You begin to be satisfied,you start to love yourself,and you release positive energy to the universe.

it is very fulfiling to do something out of personal interest rather than societal pressure

Henceforth you attract good vibes,good opportunities,good relationships,positive mindset that leads to healthy mental growth.

Life is short,it is very healthy to live according to your means.

compete with yourself.Monitor your growth and be satisfied with what you have/can afford.

It does not mean that you do not aspire for better things it simply means, while you work for the better things in life,you are doing it to your level best while maintaining good mindset and taking care of your mentalhealth.

Let us just aspire to have a job that you wakeup to in the morning and anticipate to get to work.How great the day would be.Because of how you have passion for the job.

Moreover going through a difficult time and feel hopeless.When you have a very good support system(family or friends)they encourage you and help you see things from a different perspective.

friends that motivate you to be better.such little things make a differences and can really influence your mindset in a very big way.

mental health should always be a priority in life.

If a relationship or friendship that drains you more than it builds you,that is very unhealthy.

positive vibes,creates an atmosphere of peace and happiness.

compete with yourself

cut your coat according to your cloth.

we all have different abilities.

Maximize your potential.create a very good platform for ourselves,good working environment for everyone.

It is a personal decision.

BE THE ONE TO MAKE THE FIRST STEP.

THANKYOU (episode 1)

Hello dear ones
Thankyou for taking your time to pass by and read my blog.
I get the chance to communicate positively to you once more,I appreciate the opportunity.
Let me use the simple defintion of,
THANKYOU-polite expression used when acknowledging a gift, service, or compliment, or accepting or refusing an offer.
To appreciate something also means to be grateful for something: I appreciated your help very much.
It is used in different contexts but what matters is,it’s a kind and positive gesture.
At #positivityalltheway we are all about positive vibes.
Many of us express gratitude by saying “thank you” to someone who has helped us or given us a gift. From a scientific perspective, however, gratitude is not just an action: it is also a positive emotion.
Gratitude shifts your focus from what your life lacks to the abundance that is already present.Personally Thanking God is the best prayer I can say.
It is never enough to say THANK YOU because the things that God has done for me are much greater but acknowledging and giving gratitude goes a long way.
When counting your blessings, be sure to give thanks for what God has done for you…and for who He is.
Taking the time to be thankful and appreciative for things you have received, tangible or intangible, makes you feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improves your health, helps you deal with adversity and builds strong relationships — all crucial traits at work,home,in friendships and relationships.

THANKYOU IN FRIENDSHIPS
Personally friendship is the most fundamental aspect of relationships
I really value friendships
Because i believe good and actually the best relationships grow from very good friendships.
Therefore,when a friend does something for you, it is important to say thank you. This is a fundamental aspect of courtesy, but sometimes it is hard to know what to say.

It is important to remember that your friends will be happy to get your message of appreciation.
The best thing to do is to make your message match what your friend did for you. For a small favor, a short message is just fine. For a larger favor, longer messages more appropriate.
It does not necessarily mean that you must write a very long message.
Even the simple THANKYOU goes a long way.

THANK YOU IN RELATIONSHIPS
Let’s begin with the men this time.
As ladies we feel like it should be automatic for our men to give us gifts, treat us like queens and all that ladies crave for or want in relationships.
Most times we do not get the chance to thank our men.
Men are very simple.
That THANKYOU message or gesture will make them feel a whole new level of escalation.
Just tell them you love them and you’re grateful for them, and they will be all set.

I want to thank you for all the wonderful ways you make me happy, even when you don’t realize it. Just seeing your face or hearing your voice can make my day already. Because of you, I have a permanent smile on my face.
As simple as this message looks or sounds
It has raised the bars in a way you cannot even imagine.

Of course a relationship is made up of two people.
Let’s not assume that all men do amazing stuff for their women.
Actually most men out a lot of effort when courting a lady,but once they get them,they relax a bit. (I’m not saying all men,I quote “some MEN”).
For us ladies THANKYOU expression comes out better with actions rather than just the word.Yes the word is positive but if it is accompanied with gestures it is valued more.
Words like
You are my #1Woman , and I crave your love every second. …
Your hugs, kisses, and gentle touches mean everything to me. …
You are the most amazing person in my life, and I adore and value so much. …
Sweetheart, I really appreciate everything you do to make me happy.

Okay this are just sweet ways of saying thank you.
It makes a woman feel really loved and appreciated.
As simple as it sounds,some men really find it hard to just say it.
Let’s normalize Gratitude in our lives.

THANKYOU

Hello dear ones
Thankyou for taking your time to pass by and read my blog.
I get the chance to communicate positively to you once more,I appreciate the opportunity.
Let me use the simple defintion of,
THANKYOU-polite expression used when acknowledging a gift, service, or compliment, or accepting or refusing an offer.
To appreciate something also means to be grateful for something: I appreciated your help very much.
It is used in different contexts but what matters is,it’s a kind and positive gesture.
At #positivityalltheway we are all about positive vibes.
Many of us express gratitude by saying “thank you” to someone who has helped us or given us a gift. From a scientific perspective, however, gratitude is not just an action: it is also a positive emotion.
Gratitude shifts your focus from what your life lacks to the abundance that is already present.Personally Thanking God is the best prayer I can say.
It is never enough to say THANK YOU because the things that God has done for me are much greater but acknowledging and giving gratitude goes a long way.
When counting your blessings, be sure to give thanks for what God has done for you…and for who He is.
Taking the time to be thankful and appreciative for things you have received, tangible or intangible, makes you feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improves your health, helps you deal with adversity and builds strong relationships — all crucial traits at work,home,in friendships and relationships.

THANKYOU IN FRIENDSHIPS
Personally friendship is the most fundamental aspect of relationships
I really value friendships
Because i believe good and actually the best relationships grow from very good friendships.
Therefore,when a friend does something for you, it is important to say thank you. This is a fundamental aspect of courtesy, but sometimes it is hard to know what to say.

It is important to remember that your friends will be happy to get your message of appreciation.
The best thing to do is to make your message match what your friend did for you. For a small favor, a short message is just fine. For a larger favor, longer messages more appropriate.
It does not necessarily mean that you must write a very long message.
Even the simple THANKYOU goes a long way.

THANK YOU IN RELATIONSHIPS
Let’s begin with the men this time.
As ladies we feel like it should be automatic for our men to give us gifts, treat us like queens and all that ladies crave for or want in relationships.
Most times we do not get the chance to thank our men.
Men are very simple.
That THANKYOU message or gesture will make them feel a whole new level of escalation.
Just tell them you love them and you’re grateful for them, and they will be all set.

I want to thank you for all the wonderful ways you make me happy, even when you don’t realize it. Just seeing your face or hearing your voice can make my day already. Because of you, I have a permanent smile on my face.
As simple as this message looks or sounds
It has raised the bars in a way you cannot even imagine.

Of course a relationship is made up of two people.
Let’s not assume that all men do amazing stuff for their women.
Actually most men out a lot of effort when courting a lady,but once they get them,they relax a bit. (I’m not saying all men,I quote “some MEN”).
For us ladies THANKYOU expression comes out better with actions rather than just the word.Yes the word is positive but if it is accompanied with gestures it is valued more.
Words like
You are my #1Woman , and I crave your love every second. …
Your hugs, kisses, and gentle touches mean everything to me. …
You are the most amazing person in my life, and I adore and value so much. …
Sweetheart, I really appreciate everything you do to make me happy.

Okay this are just sweet ways of saying thank you.
It makes a woman feel really loved and appreciated.
As simple as it sounds,some men really find it hard to just say it.
Let’s normalize Gratitude in our relationships.

It is polite and harmless

JOURNEY OF POSITIVITY

(Episode 1)

It’s Tuesday guys
It’s unbelievable how fast time flies
Yesterday being a Monday
Beginning of the week mostly dictates how the rest of the days are going to turn out.
Honestly speaking if a Monday doesn’t go well,it doesn’t necessarily have to mess up the rest of the days.
Weeping may endure through the night, but JOY comes in the morning.

I choose to rise up everytime I fall.
I choose to open a new chapter.
I choose to let go and let God.
So yesterday was not an easy day but it’s a learning process.
I experienced,learnt and it’s now time to move on.
WISER of course.
I believe some experiences we go through in life,it’s part of Learning.
God does not let you go through something you cannot handle.
He knows the power he has put in you,he knows your potential.
Do not allow situations in life define you or make you see yourself any LESS.
IAM MORE THAN A CONCOURER THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME.
So I allow myself to remember God’s word and what he says about me.
He has the best version of my story,no one else does.
Personally I have a burning passion for Growth and betterness .
I can say I have an eye for the finer things in life.
My motivation comes from the stories in the Bible that show people coming out of hopeless situations and eventually emerge victorious.
Allow me to quote my favourite”story of the dry bones”it gives me so much hope,strength and more reasons to know that my journey has so much in wait for me.
If only I have Faith.I know for sure
This God I serve has so much in store for me.
Normally before I write a blog on my website,I usually draft it on my notebook for the purpose of organisation and a pure flow once I start writing and then I post.
But today my blog is special.
It’s purely from my heart. I’m thinking and typing everything at the same time.
Iam exactly speaking my mind.
I can honestly say God spoke to me This morning and he definitely wants to assure me that the journey is long and bumpy,but he is with me through it all.
Being a mother gives me that extra strength.
My daughter was given to me as a young tree that I have to water and nurture.(Her Smile,kisses and cuddles is a whole new level of JOY.)
She will become the better version of who I decide to mould her into.
Of course God is the spearhead but he put her into my hands,and the time he has given me with her,I have to make the most out of it.
I have to bring her up knowing God.
Knowing what Love is and equally experiencing it.
Knowing the value of Family and equally experiencing it.
Knowing that life is to be lived and someday God always picks up the flowers that the tree produces so while we are in this life,we should be the best versions of ourselves.
Package ourselves as a very precious beautiful gift that God will be happy to receive.
I always say if you do not bring up your child the society will.I choose to bring my own up as long as I am breathing.
So eventually when I am not present they will always value,appreciate and hold dear what you taught them.
My mother being the best person I know alive taught me to be a fighter.She taught me to feel(she is very emotional) It is important to go through that processes but be care full when you burn do not burn everything else around you.
This means when you are angry.Cry,let it out But do let the anger and bitterness inside you affect your loved ones or the people around you.
If you need a BREAK take it.But remember to come back because it is not the end of the Road.
With all that said I thank God.
For his faithfulness.I cannot even begin to narrate.
But right now at this point in life Iam about to TAKE OFF,
Just as an aeroplane.
My support system,is very strong and as they keep cheering me on,It motivates me,it gives me so much COURAGE.
It gives me FOCUS.

Relationships episode 2

If you pray for rain You got to deal with the mud too

Iam not a relationship expert But I’m aware of few things about relationships.
Affection can withstand very severe storms of vigor but not a long polar frost of indifference.
In a relationship be willing to give as well as receive.
Be intimate with your partner.
It is not what you do,but the way you do it. (This apllies to how you treat your partner, how you.communicate and how you satisfy each other sexually)

Being in a relationship should give you comfortability and fulfilment.
It may not always be a bed of roses.
To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness.
You should not love for what you will be given or what you will gain.
If you love for the reason of what will be supplied (either money or temporal favour,you love the gift, rather than the gifter)
You should love freely for yourself and not for anything else.

if you want to be in a relationship you have to be willing to pay the true cost .

Choose your partner over and over again because they are the one your heart has chosen not your eyes.
Eyes see better things every time.
If you love with the eyes you will keep loving different people all the time.
Your door will keep being open to more appealing things.
Keep having more reasons to love your partner. (This applies to both parties )
That’s work.Put in the work.
When choosing a partner.look at being their friends first rather than lover.
Friendship creates an environment of confidence, true image,faithfulness, happiness and freedom.
Once you have all these with a person and still choose them ,it boldly shows that you can communicate with your partner.
Love a person for who they are.
There comes times in relationships when there are more disappointments and constant need to be away from your partner because of behaviour and how feelings are reciprocated.
But when you are friends, when the storms come,you have a constant need to share your feelings and communicate with this person.
Then there comes your friend.
You will be able to talk about matters affecting your relationship without your feelings escalating or resulting to violence.

freedom.

Yes you are together but that doesn’t mean that you own each other .
Each person needs their space once in a while.
It is not selfish to spare sometime for yourself.
Freedom is a priority.
Openly share your opinions with each other before making decisions.
Both of you have to show willingness .
Passion of a relationship is so sweet and with loyalty and love it may endure a lifetime.
If you have peace of mind,you will be able to create an environment of peace in your relationship.
Do not compare yourself to strangers.
Growth is a fundamental aspect in a relationship and it takes two people to make it work.

It doesn’t hurt to be kind

IT DOESN’T HURT TO BE GOOD

Be the one to make a difference in another person’s life..
You dont have to put in so much effort..

it’s very simple

If someone comes to you hungry, will you feed them? You don’t have to give them money to buy food, you can always make them a meal.

If someone comes to you lonely and depressed, will you take time for them? Your words can be the exact words they need to hear. They may just need to know someone is there for them.

If someone comes to you sick, will you pray for them? They may have went to all the doctors and gotten all the same reports but prayer changes things. Will you take the time to agree with them in prayer for their healing?

Don’t be the one who talks about what everyone else will or will not do. Be the one who feeds the hungry, takes time out for those who are lonely and depressed, and prays for the sick.

Be God’s hands, feet, and mouthpiece on earth! Amen

Acceptance

And now I finally realise
That I’m the one with the problem

Looking at it from a , **positive** persepective.

Iam always emotionally and physically available for people who are important to me,
“I.e my family,friends,the men I date.”that’s something I do not regret.
Realising that I am the one with the problem means that I know myself as a very emotional person and have learnt some lessons that are going to help me through working through my relationships.It may not work for everyone but it sure does for me.
Here are my 3 lessons
Let’s call them

#The ♡Treesh lessons♡
HUMANS ARE RIDICULOUS
BE KIND ALWAYS
WE ALL HAVE A ROLE TO PLAY

HUMANS ARE RIDICULOUS
All these people are human and humans are ridiculous creatures.
Saying they are ridiculous means I should never take them too seriously. (Not on an offensive way).

There should be limits when it comes to the support I offer to them.

BE KIND ALWAYS!
Yes it is a positive gesture to be there for them because they matter and doing good things and nice gestures to people you love is actually very fulfilling,
but it is important to be a bit selfish
Put yourself first.

Do not be too dependant on them that you feel that you owe them.
Once you feel that way,you feel entitled to suffering for them and most of the time they take advantage of it.

When that happens you’re left vulnerable and that’s why you end up being hurt every time your actions and feelings are not reciprocated.

Finally you end up consoling yourself when you are hurt,that at least you did your best,loved your best and was present at your best.

Not keeping in mind that you are numbing your pain.
Pain is to be felt,I think it’s the best way to recover and move on.
So when they disappoint me,
I go back to the mirror do the 60 secs test remind myself who Iam
See the people for who they are.
Accept that they disappointed you
Feel the pain
Tell yourself that you know better now.
And of course remind yourself that **humans are ridiculous **
Cry or laugh about it..whichever that makes you feel and let go.

WE ALL HAVE A ROLE TO PLAY
We are here to co-exist
You are who you are for a reason, so are other people you interact with.
When you are in a relationship with someone either friendship or romantic relationship.

Both parties have a role to play.
Nobody likes being alone.

The people who do, have created a secure world around themselves.
(In terms of relationships
Once you have been in a couple of relationships and they all almost end up the same way.

Hurtful and disappointing)
With less disappointments and doing constant things that keep them engaged so they do not feel like they lack something in life.
On the positive outlook,we should be open minded.
Get into relationships with a purpose”like a contract” and not because you are lonely.being alone does not mean you are lonely
Once such a relationship fails
You can easily embrace the fact that it had a beginning and an end.

Though it gets harder to let go once you’ve connected with someone,opened up and shared alot with the person.
But look at it from this angle,
If a person begins to withdraw emotionally and you realise he stops showing you the affection as he/she did before,the best thing is to talk about it.

At least that’s what I do if I want to work things out.

Keep in mind the feeling should be mutual.
If you are the only one who wants to work things out,then that relationship may not be worth fighting for.

I’m here to talk about how you get up and start a fresh
Freeing yourself from mental slavery means you are not going to hurt to a point of depression when you can work through it and come out stronger and wiser.

Then open to the next chapter of life,
Live it,wiser and more focused

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